Jesus prayed for this!

“I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one— I in them and you in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.”-Jesus (John 17:22-23)

One of the biggest lessons I’ve gleaned during my twenties has been that great opportunities come out of friendships with people who are different from you. I hope you have those kinds of friends in your life; I’m working to gain more and more of them.

Over the last couple of years, a friendship has emerged between Rob Payne, Fernando Hernandez, and myself. We’ve eaten meals together, hung out in each other’s offices and enjoyed some very funny moments. Fernando leads North Phoenix’s Ministerio Hispano. Our offices are next door to one another. Rob Payne is one of our worship leaders at Crash. Rob wears a lot of other hats at NPHX including creative direction and video production.

We have discovered similar passions between Crash and the Hispanic Ministry. We play some of same songs and we are intentionally working to reach young adults. We’ve been able to assist one another from time to time and even used similar set pieces since our services both meet in NPHX’s Chapel on Sundays.

An idea emerged a while back. What if we brought our two communities together for joint worship? The ideal timing for that service landed perfectly at the beginning of WeServe, a seasonal event at NPHX where we mobilize several hundred people within our church to serve the community through partners where NPHX has an ongoing presence.

Earlier this month, we announced this unique opportunity to both Crash and the Hispanic Ministry. On February 26, our smaller communities will come together for united worship at 10:30am (during the Hispanic Ministry’s normal hour) and at 6pm (during Crash’s normal hour). Our musicians will play together at both services, with songs in English and in Spanish at both times. I will be speaking at 10:30am in English (translation for Spanish-speakers) and Fernando will be speaking at 6pm in Spanish (translation for English-speakers).

Then, on Saturday, March 3, we are encouraging the people who take part in our ministries to come together for a united service project as a part of WeServe. We feel this is a first step in exposing each of our communities for one another and building a stronger bond as one church that meets as smaller communities.

We’re excited to come together as an expression of the unity Jesus prayed for in John 17.

I’ve been blessed to be a part of a spirit of unity and togetherness over the last year. Whether it is the encouragement of seeing generations coming together at NPHX, a ministry like PhoenixONE (a partner of NPHX). our upcoming Ash Wednesday Service, or this joint Crash/Hispanic Ministry experience, it is awesome to be a part of what God is doing.

I encourage you to join us on February 22 for Ash Wednesday and on February 26 at 10:30 am or 6pm for these joint Crash/Hispanic Ministry services. And make sure and sign up for a WeServe project, like the one we mentioned above.

We are praying that God does incredible things as we come together as one body!

What do you live on?

I live on stories. Some might say that’s not true. They think I live on coffee. But what really gets me going and sustains me through difficult seasons are the stories of people whose lives have been transformed.

What makes a great story? Overcoming conflict. Overcoming difficulty. A moment where it is unclear whether things are going to work out.

I believe we connect with one another through the stories we tell. Put a group of people around a table with food and what comes out are great stories. Same thing with a campfire or a road trip. Stories rule the day.

While we connect with one another through the stories we tell, the stories we connect most deeply through are the stories that involve scars, pain, and loss. We connect more through our suffering than our success. The pain two people share in common binds them more deeply than the happiness they’ve known.

As I prepped for our series on forgiveness in January called Toxic (you can find the podcast here), I came across this video from CrossPoint Church in Nashville, Tennessee. Will told his story (via video) during one of their services in January. The story is an example of the way that our stories are worth telling, worth hearing and worth sharing. Even when the pain is deep and the injustice is real.

You have a story. It matters. Every person you meet today has a story. Their’s matters. Take a moment to pause long enough to experience this at least once today.

In the meantime, check out Will’s story below.

this is not normal, but it should be!

A Baptist pastor working with an Anglican priest to plan an Ash Wednesday service for multiple congregations to worship together and begin the journey towards the highpoint of the church year – Easter Sunday. This is not normal but it should be.

In his final moments before his arrest, Jesus prayed for his disciples (which includes me and many of you). In John 17:23, he prayed, “May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.”

We live in a culture that creates radical divided and polarized factions over every issue, each with the inability to reasonably and honorably discuss differences and problems with the hope of coming together around solutions. This happens in politics and theology, along with so many other arenas.

Several years ago, I became friends with Shane Copeland, who had just launched a new church in Downtown Phoenix called St. George’s Anglican Community. We met through a mutual friend and after many cups of coffee, an idea emerged to do something together with the two communities we lead. The first event was a joint Ash Wednesday experience. Since then, I have preached in Shane’s church and we have co-led several more Ash Wednesday services, along with an Advent service this past December.

I do not often think of Shane as different from me; I just think of him as a friend and fellow Christ-follower. I was reminded of how “not normal” our relationship is when someone sat down with me recently perplexed at how a Baptist pastor would come together with an Anglican priest to host an Ash Wednesday service. This perplexed friend had explored this kind of relationship in his large suburban mega-church and was forbidden from that kind of thing ever again.

In light of this, I am extra grateful to invite you to join Shane and myself, along with our churches, St. Georges Anglican Community and North Phoenix Baptist Church, for an Ash Wednesday Service on Wednesday, February 22, 2012. This service, which will involve several other local churches including Desert Mission Anglican Church, will take place in the Chapel at North Phoenix beginning at 6:30pm. Children will participate in this service, while we are offering programming for preschoolers between birth and kindergarten by RSVP (details for that at the end of this post).

Ash Wednesday is one of the most meaningful services I get to take part in every year and this joint venture has expanded my vision of the Church and God’s work in Phoenix in an incredible way. If you have any questions about the service, please leave a comment below and we will respond. We look forward to you joining us that evening as we begin the journey towards the Cross and Empty Tomb of Jesus Christ.

To get a taste of the experience, my friend, Dave Warner, took some incredible photos from 2011′s Ash Wednesday service.

***Preschool details: RSVP by sending an email to scott.savage@nphx.org. Include in your email the names and birthdates of the children who will be attending the preschool programming. If your preschoolers normally attend NPHX programming for preschoolers, you do not need to RSVP. With the RSVP plan, we are attempting to provide the best experience for all the extra families who will join us for this service. Also, if you are bringing preschoolers, plan to arrive at 6:15, so you can check your children in and be prepared to begin the service at 6:30. The service will conclude no later than 8pm.

Afshin Ziafat at NPHX

I shared last week about our excitement regarding a special guest speaker.

We had a great Sunday at NPHX this past weekend with our guest, Afshin Ziafat. He shared in our 10:30am service and Crash (our 6pm service). We experienced a great response in both services and had an overflow crowd on Sunday evening. Below, you will find links to the audio and video of his Sunday morning and Sunday evening messages. If you missed either, I encourage you to check them out. Watch or listen to them again, if you were there, and share them with others.

Click here for video from Sunday morning and Sunday evening respectively.

One caveat regarding Sunday evening. We had technical difficulties that night, so the video starts 10 minutes into his message. The audio link below has the full message.

Click here for audio from Sunday morning and Sunday evening.
For photos from the service Sunday evening, click here.
For more information on Afshin Ziafat, check out his website.

top posts from January 2012

In case you missed any of them, here are my top ten posts for January 2012.

graphic courtesy of www.wordle.net

1. A Newsworthy Day, part one (my interview on Channel 12 News in Phoenix about Tim Tebow’s 3:16 playoff game) – January 9, 2012

2. A Newsworthy Day, part two (my interview in Portraits Magazine with Francis Chan, along with video of my interview re: Tebow) – January 10, 2012

3. I know I need it, but this sucks! (It is often the things we need the most – feedback, in this instance – that we struggle to actually accept in the moment) – January 4, 2012

4. The Day My Grandfather Met Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. (One of my favorite family stories)  - January 16, 2012

5. The conversation about manhood in America (two interesting pieces regarding the state of manhood in America from very different sources) – January 18, 2012

6. I thought you hated rules! (9 rules for creatives and how boundaries make our creativity better) – January 26, 2012

7. Your favorite Bible verse: Philippians 4:13 (A different take on “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”) – January 5, 2011

8. Getting over that Monday Morning Hangover (Steps for pastors, church staffers and others to get past a hard Sunday into a successful Monday) – January 30, 2012

9. A Powerful Story of Forgiveness (Introduction to Afshin Ziafat, guest speaker at NPHX in January 2012) – January 23, 2012

10. Dallas Willard and the Gospel of Sin Management (a false gospel preached in many places today and a possible source to so many of our challenges in the church) – April 25, 2009

A couple of interesting lessons I learned. One, I was surprised to see two blogs from outside of this month on the list. #7 from January 2011 and #10 from April 2009 get hits nearly every day because of the tags and Google searches. So, it is cool to see blogs still get traffic after all that time has passed. Two, I need to improve in giving titles to my posts. Some of my titles would be completely unclear without the description in parentheses shows me a growth edge I have as a blogger.

I appreciate you and your presence here on the blog. Thanks to Michael Hyatt for inspiring me to start this feature in 2012 and for the model for this post.

Question: Just out of curiosity, which of the top 10 was your favorite post and why? Any topics you would like me to explore here in February 2012?

I thought you hated rules!

I follow Tim Schrader, a church communication guru. I read his blog and enjoy his tweets. Tim’s posts are full of insight and I like his spirit. Recently, he shared a picture that he found on Jeremy Cowart‘s Google Plus feed. (Cowart is an incredible photographer, the brains behind Help Portrait). The picture (which I have posted below) includes 9 rules for creatives.

Now, my first thought was “Creatives don’t like rules. So that title is ironic.” As I waited, I realized that rules are like boundaries, and creativity thrives within boundaries. Even sometimes in proportion to the amount of boundaries.

As I have reflected on these rules several times over the last week or so, the one that resonates the most with me is teach others about what you know. I am a verbal processor and so the longer I talk, the more I comprehend what I believe and the more I clarity I get. God bless my wife who is often the victim (or listener, however you want to look at it) in this process. My creativity grows and expands and I connect ideas as I share them with others. As I teach what I already know, and as others repeat back to me and reflect on what I’ve said, my ideas get better, clearer and more portable. Twice this week, I have pitched ideas to coworkers, airing the concepts outloud for the first time and by the time we were done, my ideas were more developed and my next steps were obvious. When I teach others what I already know, my energy increases and my creativity expands.

I know creatives and artists are supposed to hate rules, but we are also supposed to not shower, be poor, miss meetings and be unreasonable. Rules can guide us into greater art if we submit to them like the boundaries of a medium, a subject or a timeframe.

Question: Whether you are a creative, an artist or you miss drawing with crayons, which of these 9 rules resonates most with you? 

A powerful story of forgiveness

My pastor, Dan Yeary, came to me this fall and asked if I had heard of Afshin Ziafat. I had not, so I did what any 27 year old pastor does. I typed in his name into Google and YouTube. Within a day, I was blown away by the powerful story of transformation that God had done in the life of a boy who was born in the USA, lived in Iran, fled a political revolution, and experienced persecution in America. Afshin now has a platform to share the Gospel with thousands of college students every week. When we got a chance to invite Afshin to join us at NPHX in January 2012, we jumped at it.

As we decided to begin 2012 at Crash with a series on forgiveness, I knew that Afshin’s story would be a powerful way to end this conversation about how we can break away from the toxic power of un-forgiveness. And I am incredibly excited for him to be at NPHX this upcoming weekend. You can learn more about Afshin’s story and his sharing this weekend at our church here.

Invite a friend to come with you. Someone who has questions about God, someone who struggles with doubts and frustrating past experiences with religious people. Ask them to join you on Sunday morning at 10:30AM or Sunday evening at 6PM.

If you want to check out a little taste of Afshin’s story, check out the video below. And then join me in praying passionately for God to do great things when we come together.

the more you gain, the more you have to lose

Every time I succeed, I have more to lose. The greater success I discover, the more tempted I am to avoid risk and play it safe. This thought process plagues many of us, whether we are exploring relationships or doing business.

I thought about this reality this past weekend when I was making final preparations to share in both Sunday servies at North Phoenix Baptist Church. I highly value transparency in the messages I bring and I look for opportunities to share moments where I have been “the hero or the villian”. I think we connect with one another far more deeply through our failures than our success and so I look to offer that to others. But I wondered if others would think less of me if they knew of a broken place in my life.

I have been surprised though as God grants me more and more platforms from which to share. It is scarier and riskier to be “that honest”. To go THAT real. Every time, vulnerability and transparency can terrify us. However, these are the paths to great relationships and I believe God honors our willingness to go out on a limb to meet someone else in their place of need.

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I read a small bit of Henri Nouwen every day. The late Catholic priest and Ivy League professor is full of incredible wisdom and spiritual insight. A few days ago, I read these words and they resonated in me.

There is a great difference between successfulness and fruitfulness. Success comes from strength, control, and respectability. A successful person has the energy to create something, to keep control over its development, and to make it available in large quantities. Success brings many rewards and often fame. Fruits, however, come from weakness and vulnerability. And fruits are unique. A child is the fruit conceived in vulnerability, community is the fruit born through shared brokenness, and intimacy is the fruit that grows through touching one another’s wounds. Let’s remind one another that what brings us true joy is not successfulness but fruitfulness.

-Henri Nouwen, Bread for the Journey

“Intimacy is the fruit that grows from touching one another’s wounds.” Now that may be a far too emotional thought than you feel comfortable with engaging. You may feel that you have to surrender a man card to go down that road. But I believe intimacy is the greatest fear of many of us. We are terrified of truly being known.

Today, I challenge you to consider Nouwen’s words and your own fears. If you put all your eggs in the basket of success, you will have more to lose with each additional gain. However, the path to the fruit God intends for us to bear comes through acknowledging and owning our dependency on the Holy Spirit for all we need. In John 15, Jesus said, “I am the vine and you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit. Apart from me, you can do nothing.” We need that community that Nouwen described, that is born through “shared brokenness”.

Ever been there? Care to share? Share your story in the comments below.

 

Forgiven people CAN forgive

The stories we tell one another bring us together. They unite us. Around shared experiences, around shared values, around shared perspectives.

Stories about being hurt and seeking revenge resonate with each of us. Because we all know the lust of revenge. Enter Revenge, a popular drama on ABC, loosely following the plot line of the classic novel, The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexander Dumas. As the victim of great injustice, Emily Thorne gets to choose between forgiveness and revenge every day. And her choice facilitates the drama of the show (as seen by the trailer below). But as the show also expresses, the lust of revenge is toxic.

Warning: The following video introduces a television show on ABC that is rated TV-14. Content in trailer reflects this rating.

 

Last night at Crash, we began a series called Toxic. The series title comes out of a quote by Anne Lammott who said, “Refusing to forgive is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.”

The fundamental idea of this series is forgiven people can forgive. I believe God forgives us in Jesus and enables us to forgive others. As we studied the Parable of the Unmerciful Servan from Matthew 18, we recognized that our ability to give forgiveness is connected to the depth of our received forgiveness. And conversely, our inability to receive forgiveness will result in our inability to give forgiveness. 

We established a definition of forgiveness last night, as well. Forgiveness is giving up my pursuit of revenge and trusting God to bring justice. For many of us, our inability to forgive is connected to our struggle to trust God with the offender, to bring justice as He knows best. We might not have the courage or insight to say we don’t trust God, but that’s why we won’t go there.

I began this series praying for God to do powerful things in the hearts of people. I already heard one powerful story from yesterday from a woman who has attended Crash off and on for several years. Yesterday, just a few hours before she came to Crash, an old boyfriend from college reached out to her on Facebook.  They haven’t spoken to or seen each other in 18 years.  He wrote her a message about wanting to apologize for the way he treated her back then. Apparently, he used to get pretty physically abusive with her in their relationship.

She told him that she forgave him long ago but that it wouldn’t be appropriate to be friends now. After not attending Crash for a while, last night was her first night back and the message became extremely relevant to this situation she is in. Frankly, a “God moment” like that is the kind of moment we pray for and it is incredible to see God move like that in the first night of a series.

If you missed the service last night, you can grab the podcast here beginning Tuesday afternoon (the most recent podcast, currently labeled Toxic Week 1 is actually my talk on The Indispensable Church from New Years Day). Toxic continues throughout the month of January on Sunday nights at 6pm. We would love for you to join us.

is this a dream?!

“You hear about this new church downtown in your city, from someone you never dreamed would ever attend church. Amidst high-rise buildings filled with successful business people, nightclubs filled with fashionistas and influential twenty-somethings, a church has started. This church attracts all sorts of people and the buzz spreads across the city, even across the country. You don’t know anyone who has been there yet. This weekend, you decide you will go and see what the noise is all about.

Of course, the church has rented out the coolest venue in the city on Sunday nights (the slowest night of the week). You meet some people on the street, greeting people as they wait in line. Yes, there is a line to get into church! This keeps getting odder and odder. The greeters may all wear the same church tshirts, but they seem like normal people. No fake smiles here! You hear lots of profanity in the lobby – this is not a normal church! A guy bumps into you in the lobby as the crowd surges into the room. Where have you seen him before? Isn’t he that guy who embezzled money from that big corporation headquartered in the suburbs like 10 years ago? What’s he doing at church?

You find your seat as the service begins with a video. The girl in the video looks like that actress who you saw in that raunchy romantic-comedy with your ex-girlfriend last year. Now she’s doing announcements for a church?! As you listen closer, you hear her share how she met Jesus through the woman who cleaned her trailer and the man who brought her coffee during breaks in filming. She now leads a small group in the church.

As the video ends, the band begins to play. This is the best band you’ve ever heard in a church. The female singer has pipes – she can belt it. As the spotlight hits her face, you almost laugh out loud. You pinch yourself – this must be a dream. It’s Lady Gaga! No meat dress this time. As the first song ends, you realize you don’t remember the words because you’re still in shock that Lady Gaga is leading music at a church. (No wonder they are attracting this kind of crowd). The band plays a couple more songs. For the final song, the crowd is seated and Gaga introduces it by telling the short version of her own spiritual journey, including the part where a band she was touring with shared about how their faith motivated their passion for art and creativity. The words of the song came out of her first days of faith, as catchy as her songs, Born This Way or Poker Face, yet there is a different vibe to them. Something has changed.

As you sit down, the pastor (you assume) comes on stage and you drop your iPhone on the ground. This has to be a joke. It’s Howard-freaking-Stern. He starts by telling the story of his friendship with a pastor who appeared on his show nearly 10 years ago. How that pastor befriended him and waded through all the anger and jabs Stern could throw at him. How Stern’s heart opened and he became a follower of Jesus. How he has invited everyone he knows to this new church. Stern then invites the pastor to join him on stage. The pastor shares his side of the story along with a couple thoughts from something that happened in the life of Jesus. The pastor gives an invitation for people to make the same decision Howard made. Models, actors, DJs, entrepreneurs, designers, moms, college students and homeless guys go forward to pray with volunteer counselors. The pastor shares about the  opportunity to partner with the church in showing and sharing God’s love with the city. Ushers pass offering plates and the pastor lets people know you can give online or via iPads with Square in the lobby.

You walk out of the service that night, in disbelief that a church like that exists and that Lady Gaga and Howard Stern are leading it.”

Does that story seem far-fetched to you? Unbelievable? You say it will never happen?

In other words, Howard Stern and Lady Gaga are beyond God’s reach? God couldn’t move in their hearts? Well, I am glad someone else didn’t say the same thing about you. I am glad God and your friends and family didn’t write you off.

Here’s the thing. There are several times a year in which people are more likely to have spiritual conversations. After a national crisis like 9/11, around holidays like Christmas and Easter or during a crisis in their own personal life. Sadly, though, many of the people around us won’t be in a dialogue with us about who Jesus is, why He came to live and walk among us. These people won’t get a conversation like that because they are past the edge of our faith. They are past the reach of God’s love and His ability to transform a life. We brush past them without another thought.

I know we say that God created every person who walks on earth. We talk about how He made them in His image and loves them. We recite verses and sing songs about God’s love for EVERY ONE. But if you walked into a church and Lady Gaga was the worship leader and Howard Stern brought the sermon, what would you do?

What if “that person” (you know the one who is beyond God’s reach) handed you your program or passed the offering plate down your row? What if you walked forward, looking for someone to pray for you and the person you met was the person you had stopped praying for so long ago?

Every person in that dream sequence shared about how they were transformed. Each time their story included an encounter with someone who loved them unconditionally, served them or shared about the faith, hope and love they had because of their faith in Jesus.

I don’t mean to beat you up or kick you in the face with this obscenely long post. But I am completely convinced that this season is about God doing ridiculous, unbelievable things to redeem and restore the broken and sinful world we find ourselves in. A pregnant teenage girl, her good-kid fiancee, some stuck-in-poverty field workers and some scientists from a foreign country all get a front row seat to the world premiere of God in the flesh.

Maybe it’s just me. But I think Christmas should hit the reset button on my perspective and faith every year. I need to establish new edges for my faith. I need to actually live what I read, sing and memorize.

This Christmas, I am re-connecting with a story of a God who came near humanity and from his very first breath said, “I have not come to be serve, but to serve and give my life as a ransom for many.”

How about you? Who is on the outside of your view? Who is beyond the edge of God’s love and reach?  

What if you decided to present with them this holiday season and asked God to begin opening your eyes to see how He sees the people he created in His image to be people who receive His love? What might God do?